Why people aren’t buying from you, and how to change that?
As a new and aspiring coach, it can be extremely frustrating when you know that what you have to offer the world is amazing, but it seems like no one else sees the value.
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You share your expertise.
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You give people free tips.
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You shout from the rooftops for all to hear…
But no one is ready to take that next step and purchase your program/ work with you one-on-one/ or join your course.
The truth is, it’s not you!!
Once you understand what prevents people from buying, you learn how to move beyond that and get them to commit to the next step.
There are three main things that prevent people from buying from you. So let’s talk about those three reasons and, more importantly, what you can do to avoid them.
TIME
The first reason people do not take the first step is because of time. Let’s be honest we live in a busy world, and many of us are balancing a lot of different commitments in the idea of taking on yet another commitment can feel overwhelming. While the potential client could desire to take the next step, the time commitment could feel like another barrier, making it feel impossible to commit to what it is they desire.
MONEY
The second reason people are not committing to taking that next step is because of money. Research says that 49% of Americans are living paycheck to paycheck. Therefore the idea of having to spend your money on something else can also feel exhausting and even a little bit scary.
Think about it, if you’re living on an already tight budget needing to commit to yet another expense may feel too far out of reach. A lot of coaches will tell you that money is never truly a barrier because a lot of times if people really want something, they’ll make it happen.
But I’m here to share that there are things that I’ve made happen because they were necessities, and on the flip side, there are things that I genuinely wanted to happen but couldn’t make happen because, at that moment, they were not considered the bare minimum or the necessities. So I understand that finances can be a very real barrier preventing people from taking the next step.
LIMITING BELIEFS
The third reason that people do not commit to buying is because of limiting beliefs. We all have limiting beliefs from time to time, and we know that limiting beliefs are extremely powerful. They can either make you, or they can break you.
So when you have a client that’s presenting with the limiting belief that’s keeping them stuck, understand that without moving beyond that, they will stay exactly where they are. Whether it’s because they’ve already tried to commit to making change by themselves or maybe they have already tried to work with another coach, and they haven’t seen the transformation that they desired, a lot of people end up with a bitter state of being.
Meaning that they don’t believe that transformation is actually available for them. In turn, they don’t trust themselves to make the change or the decision all because of the beliefs they have created around it. Because they don’t believe in themselves or that the change can exist for them, they create a comfort zone with where they are currently, and in turn, they become stagnant.
Regardless of the reason, the best thing that you can do is to pay attention to where the potential client is showing a block. Once you identify where they’re showing a block speak to that part. First and foremost, the client is going to feel very hear and understood, and in turn, they will likely feel very safe.
